WELCOME HEART: Living a Legacy Life

Ep 239 Our Hope in Jesus When We Don't Understand with Amy Watson

Fellow podcaster, teacher and speaker, Amy Watson from Florida, joins me today on Welcome Heart: Living a Legacy Life to tell her story of trauma, healing and hope in Jesus. Although she lived with trauma from early childhood, it wasn't until age 35 when she "felt safe" that she began her healing journey. She began her podcast, Wednesdays with Watson, to share not only her story but to help in the healing of others. All contributions to her Patreon are donated to help those receive therapy who cannot afford to get it. 
Some gems from our conversation:
When trauma victims finally begin to feel "safe" that's when they can start the long process of healing.
Our mission on this earth is critical and the time is short.
God promises we will have trials in this world and that He has overcome the world.
When folks ask me who I am I like to say, "I'm a precious daughter of the Most High God."
The church's role is not to provide band-aid's and Christian cliches'; rather it's to pay attention and open our homes, tables and lives to those around us.
How can anyone attempt to navigate life on earth without the hope we have in Jesus?
We need to pay attention to the people in our churches and neighborhoods—to help them feel seen, known and valued. 
Because people knocked on my door, invited me in, and loved me like Jesus—that is the reason I am standing here today.
From Amy: 
I am a Florida girl who loves a simple life: Jesus, family, friends, football, and the beach (usually in that order). I am a native of Jacksonville, Florida, but have spent most of my adult life on Florida’s west coast.
While being introduced for a speaking opportunity a few years ago, the pastor asked me, “Who are you?”. The words that followed shocked even me: “I am the precious daughter of the most high God”. There were many years when I would not have answered that question as I did that day. I have spent most of my life defining myself by all that I have survived, all that I have accomplished, or all the degrees on my wall. The truth is, my answer to that pastor’s question that day is the definition that is most important, and one that I hope truly defines my life when I am gone. The rest: survival, accomplishments, and college degrees are certainly a part of my story and why I write, mentor, and speak. My description of “who I am” that day is why I stand proclaiming Him and Him alone.
I grew up in a children’s home, graduated from Clearwater Christian College with a degree in Biology (1994); was married for 12 years to a man who tried to kill me and somewhere along the way managed to earn my Masters Degree in Business Administration. I have enjoyed success as an entrepreneur as well as an educator. As a survivor of a lot of things that tried to kill me, it is my desire to use my story to spread a story of Hope for any who may find themselves in similar situations as mine.
I love both the written and spoken word and enjoy opportunities to share my experiences in both personal and professional genres. My greatest desire is to invest my life in something that will outlive it. It is my hope that all of my efforts here and in other places will accomplish just that.
 
To learn more from Amy follow all these places:
wednesdayswithwatson.com 
Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/groups/132618684688613
Instagram.com/authoramywatson
X: twitter.com/amywatsonauthor
 
If you're interested in hearing a more detailed story of her trauma, Amy recommends this recording:
https://wednesdayswithwatson.com/charting-the-course-of-healing-a-personal-odyssey-through-trauma-faith-and-redemption/
And to see how to contribute to her Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/amywatsonauthor
 
 
 

Ep 238 Shaping a Legacy of Gratitude and Grace with Sally Clarkson

Sally Clarkson didn't grow up feeling accepted or acceptable and wondered if she ever would be until one day she prayed, "If there's a God in the universe, will you please send me someone to explain who you are." And he did. A young woman knocked on her door and asked, "Can I give you a religious survey?" From that brief conversation, Sally learned that she was greatly loved and designed for great purpose and she didn't look back. 
Today, after writing over 40 books on knowing God and living for Christ, Sally talks of how as women we have agency—we have options to flourish and make decisions by faith that will cause us to thrive and make a difference in the lives around us. Her latest book speaks of beauty and choices and the love of God, Well Lived, Shaping a Legacy of Gratitude and Grace. Put it on your Christmas list and pray about giving it to someone you love this Christmas.
Some Sally gems:
I thrive better when I live in a rhythm of obedience—doing what's right because I love God serves me well even if I don't feel it at the time. 
I make sure to include things in my life that refuel my soul on a regular basis including friends that call me to my best self. 
What I needed was unconditional love and that's what God provided. 
To thrive means to live by faith.
I wish I knew earlier what it meant to live in a fallen and chaotic world.
Each day I pray to find a way to leave an imprint of God's love on someone I spend time with.
Earlier in my live, I would argue with God until I learned that by following Him, He was taking away things that wouldn't help me.
Women are discouraged and feel a lack of direction but they have agency and more capacity than they realize.
I told God that I was going to plant a flag to cultivate gratefulness and start each day by thanking Him for four things before getting out of bed.
We thrive by taking the stuff of our lives and putting it in God's hands and saying, "I'm Yours. What does the Holy Spirit want to dream through me?"
Sally Clarkson is a bestselling author, renowned speaker, and beloved mentor who has dedicated her life to inspiring countless women to live for Christ. She has been married to her husband Clay for more than forty years and they have raised four adult children. Today, Sally lives between the mountains of Colorado and the rolling fields of England.
You can learn more of Sally Clarkson's ministry below:
Website: https://sallyclarkson.com/Podcast, At Home with Sally Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sally.clarksonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/therealsallyclarkson/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrpMU6iAuldEQFbPISjSC_A
 

Ep 237 Tasting Grace and Coming Alongside with Jan Morton

Jan Morton believes that everyone needs to be and feel seen so that they know the Gospel love of Jesus and that it might be best accomplished at her table with homemade biscuits. A pastor's wife of 47 years, Jan surprised herself and everyone else in her church when she realized that she had never given her life over to Christ even after marrying a pastor and singing in the choir. She had to move her faith from her head to her heart and she loves sharing her story with everyone she meets. 
Jan co-authored the book Tasting Grace: A Mentoring in the Kitchen Bible Study with Leah Adams and now the Tasting Grace kitchen ministry is going on nine different states across the country. Leave a comment to be entered into the book giveaway. 
Some gems from our time together:
If it matters to us, it matters to Jesus.
I was mentored without knowing that was going on—we just did life together.
After I trusted Christ, I knew I could be myself and just love on everyone I met. 
God is writing your story and I want to hear it. 
I've learned to now pray about everything and delight in the fact that I am not in control of everything.
What happens at Gran-Jan camp stays at Gran-Jan camp. 
My best cooking tip is to make sure you place all your ingredients out on the counter before you start. 
I want my family to know that all of my treasure is in heaven and that I love Jesus with all my heart. 
Mentoring means to come alongside, ask questions and sit with another. 
Jan, a mother of two boys and grandmother of five, retired six years ago after thirty years serving in Houston County Schools. She describes herself as a content homebody, and a biscuit-maker who especially enjoys gardening, cooking, and quilting. Co-author of the book Tasting Grace, Jan also served in women’s ministry for 21 years.
She serves in a kitchen mentoring ministry of the same name: Tasting Grace – I think this is why I found Jan on Instgram – we have similar passions and both love making and serving biscuits.
A favorite fun fact of hers is being on Wheel of Fortune Season 33! Yes she won!
 https://granjansjoy.com/
And on Instagram. @jan_m_morton
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Ep 236 Sabbath and Soup: God's Gift to You and Maybe Your Neighbor with Kathi Lipp

Kathi Lipp's latest book is sure to be a treasure for you and hopefully for your neighbor who may need your chicken and wild rice soup that you just made!
Sabbath Soup: Weekly Menus and Rhythms to Make Space for a Day of Rest released October 8th. Beyond the convenience and peace of mind of managing meals, Kathi wrote this book to help you experience true Sabbath rest, a full day to relax, recharge, and reconnect with God and your friends and family. We were designed to rest—it’s time to reclaim your Sabbath day. This book will show you how.
Kathi is no stranger to Living a Legacy Life as this is her third time to be a guest on my show. Kathi and her husband Roger live in the mountains of CA and they have learned the joy and rhythm of "pre-deciding" meals, not only for their own sense of rest and refreshment, but also for those they know and love. 
Kathi Lipp is the Publishers Weekly best-selling author of over 20 books, including Sabbath Soup. She and her husband Roger ran away to the mountains of Northern California where they grow their own food and turn it into delicious meals for those they host.
And she will be hosting a giveaway all week long so be sure to enter and leave a comment below or on social media or just email me: sue@welcomeheart.com. 
Some gems from our conversation:
The reason we keep sabbath is because it's God's gift to us.
We were not designed for the hustle we create for ourselves. 
We are unaware of God's extravagant love for us; keeping sabbath helps keep us aware of this love.
If I keep items on hand in the pantry or freezer, I can be the first person at someone's door with a meal or pan of brownies when they just can't make one more decision.
We grew up with a mind set of "in order for everyone else to rest, women had to do all the work." 
A true sabbath helps us honor God, connect with people, and remember God's provisions.
Providing food for others helps them "feel seen" no matter what's going on in their lives. 
We don't need to ask, "How can I help?" Rather announce, "I'm bringing a meal at 3 this afternoon—will that work and are you gluten free, by the way?
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Ep 235 Be Refreshed, Know Your Purpose, Fight the Battle with Sarah Birkbeck

Thirteen years ago, Sarah felt stirrings in her heart and spirit—she knew she was meant for something in God's great purpose plan. She just didn't know what. So she invited some friends over. Four came. They talked about their own dreams and stirrings and how they might fit into God's great story of love and design. From small beginnings—you've heard the adage—great things emerge when offered to God with humility and perhaps, some trepidation. REFRESH.ORG was born and now reaches 1,000's of women. I love how God does math. Loaves and fishes offered to the Muliplier and Distributor. 
Join Sarah Birkbeck today on my podcast and find out how God led her to help women "join the battle" to  do God's will with joy and intention. And if there's still room for REFRESH 2025,  she's offering a 50.00 off coupon to our listeners. Go sign up today! www.refreshwomen.org
Some gems from our conversation:
We tend to diminish what God's put inside of us for his kingdom work, thinking that who we are and what we offer can't make a difference for him or for others. 
The act of pressing into the Lord even while exhausted and ready to quit provides all the strength needed to do his will with joy and confidence.
I didn't have much to offer: this house, these friends, these stirrings; but God took what I had and Refresh was born.
To lead women to the Father is the most important step in unlocking the dream potential that he's placed inside of each of us. 
REFRESH means to enliven, stimulate, fortify and revive—God wants to revive the dreams lying dormant within each and every woman. 
The truth is that at one time or another  every woman feels forgotten, inadequate or stuck in the thought of "I really don't know at all what I'm doing!" 
To activate Christian women to advance the kingdom of God is my battle cry; to assemble the troops, position them for battle and carry out what God had in mind all along. 
Sarah Birkbeck, wife and mother of four, is the founder and visionary of Refresh, a ministry dedicated to activating women to advance the Kingdom of God. She is a speaker, passionate about leading women to discover their kingdom purposes. Sarah lives in North Dallas with her husband James, son Asher, and daughters Stella, Skyla and Adeline. 
Find out more in these places: 
Instagram: @refresh_women
@Sarahhelenabirkbeck
Website: www.refreshwomen.org 
 

Ep 234 Choose Advent, Breathe and Don't Miss Him in the Rush with Laura Crosby

Christmas is my favorite season but I can miss Jesus in the rush and crush of it all.  Laura Crosby, a writer, pastor-teacher and welcomer—loved the Christmas story so much she wanted to help us hold still enough to appreciate all the Lord did for us. 
Laura wrote an Advent study during Covid for her church in D.C. and has since made available for all of us to share, and I'm so glad she did. You may remember my first interview with Laura. Here's the link in case you want to get acquainted with her welcoming heart. She included a simple and delicious chicken recipe which I'm making tonight just because I have all the ingredients and a neighbor stopping by for dinner. 
All week long Laura is graciously offering one free copy of her Advent Study as a giveaway.
"Choosing Welcome at Advent" includes 4 short videos, Scripture for reflection and recipes! All for $10.00 (Except for the winner of the giveaway! comment below to be entered - or email me sue@welcomeheart.com.)
 
Here's a recipe sample:
Link to purchase HERE to get your own copy. Holidays are around the corner and you may need to consciously sit still, breathe and watch!
Follow Laura on instagram: @lauracrosby.
Learn more about Laura on her website here.
Laura just got home from a missions trip to Scotland and last year she raised funds and awareness for those in need by hiking the Grand Canyon rim to rim. I appreciate Laura's heart for the needy as well as her desire to make travel and do challenging things with a purpose. 
Some gems from our conversation:
We might think that "this season of our lives" is too difficult to set time aside for God, but to keep Him first is hard in any season because Satan wants to distract you. 
Experiencing Advent helps us become more aware of God's presence and so more readily respond to His voice and partner with Him. 
Any work we do for God and with God stems from our identity as His beloved. 
People don't want to feel like they are your project; rather they want to feel loved and seen. 
As we reflect on God's purpose for our lives it's good to pray often, "Lord, what is mine to do?"
When more present with Christ, we can more readily recognize the holy interruptions throughout our day.
I love Laura and I know you will too. 

Ep 233 Jesus Knows My Name And He Can Be Pushy with Sue Donaldson

Single in my 20’s, in a new career, a new town and a new church, I felt okay mostly. Life was full and purposeful, but lonely on occasion. I wondered why families didn’t ask me over for Sunday dinner.
All I could think of was that my church friends must have thought I had such an exciting single life, I wouldn’t want to come home to their normal, ordinary home and stand at the sink and peel potatoes or hold their babies while they got dinner on and then sit down at their table to get better acquainted.
But that was exactly what I wanted to do. To be part of a family, if just for an hour or two.
The Bible says God sets the lonely in families. I was lonely. I needed to be set somewhere.
I got tired of waiting. So I called up some people. Invited them over. Invited myself over. I had a precedent and his name is Jesus.
Sometimes you just have to make it happen and not wait for someone else to pick up the phone or send a text. I invited people over because I needed friends. I don’t think people thought I might be bad company or that I would run off with the soup ladle if they had me over for dinner. I just think they didn’t think of me at all.
Maybe that’s what loneliness is: To believe you aren’t even thought about.
 
Trishie's Apple Crisp
5 large apples1 t. cinnamon1/4 t. nutmeg1 t. lemon juice1/2 c water
Topping:1 c sugar3/4 c flour
1 cube butter, firm
Peel and slice applesMix in spices, lemon juice and waterLay in 7 x 11" dishMix flour and sugar togetherCrumble in chilled butter slices until it resembles small peas (as an alternative, spread flour/sugar mixture on top of apples. Melt butter and pour evenly over the top.)
Bake 45-55 min at 350 degrees. Serve warm with vanilla ice cream (sort of optional)
See printable version HERE
 

Ep 232 Managing our Money, All for Heaven's Sake with Erik Olson

In case you're wondering, it's okay for Christians to talk about their money. Why? Because all we have belongs to God, anyway. 
Today I'm delighted to host Erik Olson, a fellow podcaster and a wealth and money consultant from Holland, Michigan. As a Kingdom-impact investment adviser and retirement planner, Erik talks about not only money, but a theological view of our earthly resources that may surprise and delight you and maybe put a fire under your seat to do something worthwhile—PLAN something worthwhile—so that God is glorified and His kingdom well-served. 
 
Some gems from our conversation:
As in introvert, I prefer a spreadsheet over a conversation, but I like to think I can come alongside someone and gently and expertly help them serve themselves, others and God better with training and counsel.
The Bible isn't anti-wealth; in fact, God is pro-wealth creation. It's just one more way we are made in God's image as creators.
We make mistakes with money when we compartmentalize it as something separate from all our God-given gifts.
If all that we have belongs to God, we need to make ourselves good stewards of our wealth because we answer to Him.
God loves wealth creation insofar that we make more income in order to be generous servants as well as enjoy the life he's provided. 
The biggest mistake we make with our money is not to plan with what to do with our money.
We either pay too much attention to our money which shows we are insecure in our relationship with God; or, we ignore our money and end up with fewer opportunities to give to Kingdom work.
Jesus was very clear: We cannot worship God and money at the same time.
It's a question of worship: do we fantasize over our money and what it can provide for us or do we carry an undivided esteem of God over any of our assets?
 

Ep 231 Storytelling and Sanctuary with Susy Flory

Thinking of writing your story? Susy Flory thinks you should begin, like today.
Currently in seminary working on her doctoral degree, Susy Flory directs the West Coast Christian Writers Conference, and knows a good story when she hears it. Raised by an Irish mother who could tell a good yarn, Susy is a 17 book New York Times best-selling author whose favorite books are memoirs. Today we discuss how she came to co-write her lovely book, Sanctuary about a young man named Patrick who lost his way and the rescue donkeys that led him home. 
She's offering a free copy this week - leave a comment to be entered.
Susy leads Everything Memoir, both a free facebook group with loads of quality free offerings, as well as a year long coaching group on how to write your memoir which will be starting up again this coming January. Learn more about both on her website: susyflory.com and find all her links HERE.
Some gems:
I find people endlessly fascinating and I love helping them tell their stories in any form but especially in written form.
From getting to know Patrick and how God met him in all his struggles, I came to appreciate in a deeper, broader way that those who follow Christ are all a part of one church. 
From Patrick's story we see again how God doesn't give up on us no matter how many times we fail. 
Words have an eternal quality to them, which is reason enough to begin writing your story.
Everyone who loves God has a God-story that needs to be told, even if only for one person to hear it. 
Patrick felt accepted and unconditional love from one particular donkey named Aran and that helped him feel less alone and eventually led towards his healing. 
Writing our stories gives us joy in that it helps us feel like there's a reason for why things have happened in our lives. 

Ep 230 Walking With the One Who Is Not Worried About a Thing with Megan Fate Marshman

Megan Fate Marshman tells us what to do when we don't have all the things figured out: go to Jesus and tell him that we don't. And then we go to him again and tell him again. We need reminding. We are prone to think we are in control and what a gift from God that we are not. 
I just finished reading an advance copy of Megan's latest book, RELAXED: WALKING WITH THE ONE WHO IS NOT WORRIED ABOUT A THING and I'd love to say that I'm totally relaxed AND not worried about a thing. But I'm more relaxed and I'm less worried. So good. Buy one for yourself (if you don't win the giveaway) and one for that friend who may be worried—oh, that's every friend, or most anyway. 
Megan, a single mom of two young boys—her dear husband Randy went to be with the Lord at age 36—writes from what she is learning about grief and worry and autonomy and coming to Jesus over and over again. A knowledgeable and charismatic teacher of the Word, Megan pastors at Willow Creek Community Church, Chicago, runs the women's ministry at Hume Lake Christian Camp and is the women's pastor at Arbor Road Church, Long Beach, CA. 
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Some gems from our conversation:
We don't need to do more; rather, we need to be intentional about showing love right where we are.
God's gift to us is that we don't need to trust in ourselves.
Risk-taking is Christlikeness because you are setting yourself up to need him and the prompts almost always lead to love.
Anxiety signals me where I'm trying to get my security.
We experience a sanctification gap and we go about it all the wrong way to close that gap without God.
Grief has taught me to pay more attention to what really matters and less attention on those things that don't. 
We are called to be God's hands and feet to anyone he brings our way. 
We are not working on making a perfect family; rather on doing things right.
Anxiety alerts us that something is going on in the dashboard of our soul.